why does it come across that so many people dislikes or evene hates their ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend?
I completely understand if their previous partner cheated on them or something, but besides that i dont understand what the other part could have done for the other person to dislike them to much
I just dont get it. Do everyone break up because something really bad happened?
Yes, i know that some people stay friends after breaking up, but im talking about those who dont
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i think for many it's a coping mechanism and a way to move on without looking back. if you hate or dislike the person you are less likely to communicate with them or get back together. it also helps them rationalize why moving on is the best thing for them. if you think to yourself "that was the best person i'll ever meet" it can really be hard to move on from that person and meet other people. however if you tell yourself, "they were horrible, good riddance" then you feel a good justification for not being with them1