Basically, I've been seeing this guy for around 2 months now.
Let me just say, he's lovely and I really like him. In the beginning, he was extra attentive towards me, really loving and sweet and all the rest.
Im not saying that he isn't any of the above now? But perhaps for maybe the past 2 weeks, I've been feeling a bit down and feeling like something isn't quite right.
We talk everyday over text and see each other neatly everyday. It's just, when I see him face to face, I'm finding him a lot quieter at times. He told me a while back he gets quiet when grumpy.
Last night, I asked if he was ok and he just said 'yeah, I'm glad you're here and why wouldn't I be ok?'
Maybe im overthinking, but I've just been feeling a bit off about stuff. I still really like him, but I feel like there's something up and can't put my finger on it.
Any advice at all, guys?
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Guys usually try to handle issues for themselves so even if he says he is ok it doesn't mean there is nothing on his mind.
I would observe it further and see if it changes or not. If it keeps going like this you will eventually have to have a serious talk, because either somethings really eating him up or he isn't as invested as much into the relationship as you think.
For now though just give him time and see if it goes away by itself.1