This girl surprised me at the end of a date when I was gonna peck her on the cheek, she kissed me on the lips. Was a bit funny/awkward haha cause it was my first kiss (if i can even call it that lol). I guess I'm thinking things are gonna escalate next time and it's probably gonna be obvious to her if we start making out that I haven't experienced this stuff before.
Should I tell her before we next meet or just try go with the flow and hope for the best?
Anyone want to try explain this confusing women's behaviour? Haha.
Why would she kiss me at the end of the date if she didn't want to see me again?
Most Helpful Girl
I was the one who was knew to everything in my relationship. I told him because I knew I would shy away from it at first, and I did. It helped him realize I wasn't rejecting him, and he had more patients! He also was not afraid to give feedback on what he preferred since I didn't know what to do. It worked out well.
I don't know if it would be different for you since you are the guy. As a female if a guy told me I would like that he trusted me enough to tell me, and it wouldn't change my mind on wanting to date him0
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Most Helpful Guy
>> Should I tell her before we next meet or just try go with the flow and hope for the best?
I think somewhere in the middle. Maybe do a bit more kissing and so forth and then say you're not so experienced about these things.
If you get her in the bedroom, you'll probably have all these nerves going so late into the game without experiencing the real deal. Try to calm yourself, take it slow, don't be afraid to touch her body and also communicate a bit. The communication part if you ask her what she wants and likes will already give you a big advantage since it usually takes a bit of experience with multiple women to understand how important that is.
And if you get into a relationship, remember to be the bigger person, keep yourself calm, don't argue, don't escalate. You'll often have a lot of intense emotions you never experienced quite that way before with your first girlfriend, and probably more than usual given how late in life you got one. Strive to be the bigger person that deescalates conflicts and doesn't act negatively on his emotions.0
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