Should I continue to trust women?

Speaking from a mans perspective...

I haven't had a close relationship with a woman. I've only had long distance relationships with women in China and one in the Philippines (No girl in the United States will date me. Been on a 6 dating apps for over 3 years and still haven't found a date).

But I constantly see woman saying they love their man and what not, yet cheat on him like it's nothing. Even though he is giving everything he has to make you happy.
Women crave attention... Except from their man. That's what I have figured out. A woman likes the attention of other men, but is in constant flux when her man provides too much, too little, not enough at the right moments, too much in the wrong moments, etc. However, any attention from the outside is good attention. You especially see it on social media.

My first girlfriend in the philippines constantly said she loved me and would never hurt me, yet cheated on me as she was saying that stuff.
My other girlfriend in China want's my attention when I don't give it to her, but when I do give it to her she doesn't want it.

I don't understand why women are so damn complicated.


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Most Helpful Girl

  • Don't let the world make you bitter. And yes, you should! A decent girl will never have the chance to prove it if you don't give her the chance.

    Also it seems like your previous experience is solely based on social media, that sadly has nothing to do with the real world. There are so many reasons why people cheat. . . or end relationships. . . or lie. But there are also a lot of people out there, who don't.

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    • 3mo

      yes, because no girl in my area or surrounding area or country wants to date me. Sent hundreds and hundreds of messages. The only girls that bother to respond are doing it to be nice or wants a friend.

Most Helpful Guy

  • well your experiences are only your experiences and not the nature of relationships or women as a whole

    let your past experiences serve as lessons on what to look for and look out for in relationships. that's what i did. i was cheated on in two different relationships. there was a time when i felt like i couldn't trust women but knew that was irrational deep down. so when i started dating i just used my experience to help me make better decisions

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    • 3mo

      there was a study done that says 50-60% of women cheat, while 70% of men cheat. I don't fall within in that 70%, but how can I trust someone who has the potential to fall in the 50-60%? I mean, that's a huge risk. Women do it for different reasons too. The study showed they cheat mostly for emotional needs and/or because they had a fight, so it's kind of like revenge. Men cheat mostly because there is a lack of something within the relationship, mostly sex.

      So if we get into a fight, how can I make sure she doesn't cheat on me? If she is mad the likelihood of her cheating just increased 10 fold.

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    • 3mo

      Yeah, that's true. The problem is I feel like I won't have much time. Like it's now or never. I'm only 22, I feel like I won't have that much time to date people. Especially people I like

    • 3mo

      you have plenty of time. i was 24 when i had my second bad relationship. now i'm happily married to an incredible woman that i trust with my life

What Girls Said 1

  • very much wisedom achieved from 2 long distance relationships with women you probably never met in real life, congratulations!

    Just get out of the house and meet real people, dating apps are sh*t.

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    • 3mo

      Keep taking the words outta my mouth 😂

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    • 3mo

      @Cosytoasty well, every girl I have tried to date IRL is either:
      gay, bi, has a boyfriend, has a husband, or just doesn't find me attractive enough... That's why I stick to online.

    • 3mo

      not everyone has the luxury of choice. I have to take what I can get.

What Guys Said 2

  • As a man we will never understand women bro!

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  • Just pretend they are cats... that should solve everything

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