I never feel like I'm good enough for guys. I have an imperfect body and a large forehead. I feel like when guys are with me I disappoint them. Do guys only like model bodies? I just feel like I'm never good enough enough.
Most Helpful Guy
Sounds like maybe you and I should talk!! I usually am attracted to the 'quirky', kind of 'strange' and 'nerdy' types, usually with glasses, but a really sweet, caring personality. Usually she is REALLY SMART, but it isn't required!
I don't want the skinny, bony, model types, but the women with PERSONALITY, someone that I can relate to, and like, as a person, first!!
As for body type, I like to cuddle, so soft curves, no rib bones or hip bones showing, a little 'tummy' is just fine, as long as she likes who she is and doesn't constantly degrade herself!
I like the PERSON, and as long as she feels OK with her body, I think we can get along well!0
Most Helpful Girl
You're always going to be your biggest critic. Unless you've had strangers comment on a giant forehead it's likely not even anything a guy will pick out. You have to remember that people see others as a whole being, as I'm sure you do when you look at your friends/family/people in general, rather than for their individual parts and perceived flaws. The vast majority of women have imperfect bodies. If you asked any one of us, I can bet 80% (conservatively) will be able to point out multiple things we are unhappy about in ourselves. (which is sad but another topic). Don't be so hard on yourself, especially for those things you can't change. If you're worried about your weight or whatever, take steps to be better.1