He is absolutely caring with me. We spend all of our time together (we even work together) and have a very healthy relationship where I have felt very secure. We have been dating for two years and he has told me that he wants us to move in together on January and then get married about a year after. He is very committed and spends a lot of time with my family and gets out of his way so I can be with his family too. He is my best friend but I see that he likes to look at other women... I asked him to stop that and I see the he has put effort but just a week ago I noticed that he had Tinder on his phone... And he confessed that he had opened it just for fun and to see who would "like" him and that he didn't and was not even planning to meet with anyone and that he always wants to spend time with me. He said he admitted it was wrong and that never ever he would do something like that. I love him very much but I'm confused... Why would he want to look at other women if he has all these ideas of us building a future together? Why would he be so caring with me in many ways? He told me that he does not want to lose me and that he opened the app just for fun and I told him that that damaged my trust on him and he said he would do anythinh to build it again. I am just scared that he is not satisfied with the relationship...
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First I highly recommend you two get Married before moving into together. It won't be the same when you live together then get married.
Secondly address him stating that he needs to delete the app, he doesn't look at it as a big deal but you do. With the question of him looking at other women when claiming to build a future together I am not sure, but you two need to have a serious conversation about that and get onto the same page.0