Okay so I've been on a date with 4 different guys from different online dating sites. We've talked for a few weeks to 3 months (varies between the guys). Now they're saying how i'm the perfect woman and the full package etc. and they cannot get enough of me before the first date. They'll talk to me until 4am etc. and they've seen me on Skype and we've talked for similar lengths of time.
I'm athletic and only 5,2. I'm sweet, girly and a little cheeky with them on the dates. I always make sure I look and smell good, and they always text me afterwards saying they had a great time. I tell jokes, I let them take the lead and I always make an effort. I get plenty of attention from other men while I'm on the date but my attention is always focused on the guy I'm with.
However things are always different after our first date. They become more reserved, less flirty and don't seem as interested the next day. This has happened 4 times in a row now and I seriously have no clue what I'm doing wrong! Any advice? Guys an insight into why you do this after a great first date would be fantastic!
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I believe the problem has to do with the kind of men you are attracting and dating. You seem to be dating the wrong kind of men. Because a guy that is very much interested in you is not going to care how awkward or the amount attention you get from other guys. As long as the attention is only between you and him, other guys shouldn't have to matter. It sounds like to me, either these guys is just looking for sex, or they aren't as confident in dating you any further because they feel intimated by other men.1