My boyfriend of 6 years dumped me a month ago. And he said ' it's over go find something productive to do with your life now' I never texted him for the month or did I see him. I have been very heartbroken over him and I miss him so much. Today I lost my will power and texted him ( I know silly me) I said 'can I see you ' he said why? I said ' I need closure maybe, I just miss you so much it's hurting me. He replied and was like ' well why? You just complained about me while you where with me" I never did complain. Me and him just had fights over things that would annoye me for example. He did more things with his female friends then me, he never let me meet her etc. So obviously I felt like I needed to say something about the situation to him. I loved him and put up with so much. I only ever wanted him. I said back to him ' I wasn't complaining we just had fights obviously certain things that you did I wasn't happy about but I never wanted us to end.' He wrote back " YEAH IT'S ALWAYS MY FAULT ISN'T IT! YOUR LITTLE MISS PERFECT! FU*K OFF AWAY FROM ME. I am crushed. And I feel so stupid should I take that as my closure? I feel so down now. Any advice? Thank yous x
It really just hurt me. The day before he dumped me he told me how happy I make him and he loves me. I never replied. And never going to
Most Helpful Guy
do you need closure or are you simply not over him yet?
i think you got closure at the time of the break up. what you really want is to see him and feel that great feeling you had while you were with him.
six years is a long time and it's going to take a long time to get over it. but you'll probably have to do it entirely without contacting him... so just put him in your past. yes you are going to have very tough days. when you feel that way remind yourself of the negative aspects of the relationship and then try and find distractions (hobbies, friends, family, activities, etc)1
Most Helpful Girl
Hmmm, I can't say if he's with someone new or if he is just that upset about the past. But either way, just leave him to rot in his anger. :) If you choose to respond, which I don't recommend since his words might crush you, just say something like "We were together for six years, and I thought I couldn't get over what you did to me. But now I'm seeing you for who you are, and I'm going to be PERFECT without you." Then block his number. Go do something fun. And upload a good photo of you having fun with friends on facebook/social media.1