Age gap for a hookup and age gap for a serious relationship?

Question

⚫️For a hookup/not serious relationship:
1. the ideal age bracket 
2. The age braket you could go for if the person is amazing but it's not ideal 

⚫️For a serious relationship:
1. the ideal age bracket 
2. . The age braket you could go for if the person is amazing but it's not ideal 
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For me👯:
I don't do hookups 
so for a serious relationship:
1. ideally: My age to 8 years older (21 to 29)
2. If the person is a real catch: 2 years younger and 11 years older (19 to 32)

EmoKate97 · Accepted Answer

My standards for hookups and relationships are similar. Of course there's always exceptions but generally for a relationship i would prefer the guy to be at least 2 years older then me and i'm fine with a 2-10 year age gap but no more. I think a woman should ideally be at least younger 5 years younger then the guy because guys and girls age differently.

However for hooking up i dont mind if the guys my age. I'd prefer if he was no older then 26 but like i said there's exceptions. Iv been swayed into hooking up with a 33 y/o black guy i met because he had experience and took care of himself well. But that was an exception, a guy that old will turn me off most of the time.

Relentless_Hippie · Accepted Answer

1. I don't have hookups because I have self respect.
2. I would never be in a relationship with someone who is significantly older or younger than me. 5 years is the max on how much older, 1-2 years is max on younger. Ideally, I wouldn't be with someone younger than me.

NectarOfPuss · Accepted Answer

The ideal age range for a hook up. I'm 25 23 to 28. The absolute range would be 20 to 44 and amazing guy.
Considering a serious relationship I would say 25 to 29. If he was fantastic I would say 24 to 32
now what can we make of all of this

Prof_Don · Accepted Answer

For a hookup, as long as I am attracted to her and like her personality, that's all that matters.

My age range for a hookup goes from:

(whatever is legal age of consent where I am at the time) to (no set upper limit)

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For a relationship, she would have to be at the VERY least, 21. She has to be able to be able to go to all adult lounges and venues in the USA where I live.

I don't have a set upper limit yet, so I'll use age 38 for now. I do want to have kids in the future.

TripleAce · Accepted Answer

8-11 year older holy moly lol. Hopefully the guy will have a young adult mind because there is always always a different with that kinda age gap. When you get older that gaps means much less. But at 20 its significant

Hook up - any age
Relationship - 5 years gap younger. And 2-3 years older max

Iron_Man · Answer

Age makes no difference to me. I date younger women I have more in common with them also our great energy match up compared to a women my age. I find older women out of shape and lazy. I have no kids I need a younger woman to have my kids. How many women around my age or older do you see having kids?

Phoenix98 · Answer

Hookups don't even remotely apply to me so I'm going to skip that category altogether.

For a serious relationships which is mostly the only kind I deal with, anything between 20-25 is fine. Though if the person is a catch I can change that how much depends on that individual.

Yumix · Answer

I can't really say exact ages because it depends on a lot more... and if I set my limit to XY, then 1-2 years more or less might not change much unless we talk about the law. maturity, common interests, personality, etc... those things are much more important

but okay, I'll give it a try:

hookups... not really doing them, but...
1. 18 - 30
2. legal - 45 😂 (lots of ifs in this one)

relationship
1. 22 - 26
2. 18 - 30

whiner_clam · Answer

Hookup (I'm not into it though) :
1. 16 (never forced) - 35
2. 18 - 45
*she needs to be physically attractive either way

Serious relationship:
1. My age to 6 years younger (17 to 23)
2. 8 years younger to 1 years older (15* - 24)

*really slow and kind of emotionally caring relationship till 17-18
She needs to be kind of attractive to me

yucel_eden · Answer

Never done hookups.

For serious relationships she must be a Kurd, Shia preferred but Sunni also welcome. I might accept other middle easterns.

Age max 2 years older, and 8 years younger (in the future maybe when I am like 27 though)

AzureGirl · Answer

I also don't do hookups. For a relationship I would prefer someone close in age to me. This goes for both categories.

skaikrasha · Answer

Never had a hookup but if by any chance I would have one: 1. 19-35 2. 18-50 As for relationships: 1. 19-25 2. 18-29

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Don't do hookups but if I did - as long as they're hot and legal. For relationship -  Ideally up to 5 years older If amazing up to 10 years older.

Bandit74 · Answer

I'd prefer a relationship but if I was to have a hookup I would be open to girls between 18 and 32 years old. For a relationship 18- 25 years old.

WillowTree · Answer

A very good question indeed! Hookup: 22-45 Serious relationship: 29-39

Blonde401 · Answer

Both age and hookups should ideally be 10 to 20 years older than me.

AleDeEurope · Answer

Hookups: 18-45. Relationships: 1) My age - 3 years younger 2) 2 years older, 6 years younger.

PlzJustDie · Answer

Not really a hookup kind of person. I'd say someone my age though.  For a serious relationship,  20-28 is ideal I could do 18-35 if the person was really awesome.

OrdinaryGentleman · Answer

Realizing i no longer have much of an interest in that stuff, life is so much better outside a relationship and i wouldn't hook up because i don't want aids.

hotstuffSRD · Answer

Age is an issue of mind over matter.   If you don't mind,  It doesn't matter. I don't care much tbh  Plus we never know what's going to happen in future

Anonymous · Answer

So you joining the hookup culture now and saying fuck this virgin shit?

HarvestMoon · Answer

I don't care about age for hookups. For serious relationships, I would want someone at least 2 years younger or any woman older than me.

Decentguy · Answer

i dont do hookups so i have no exact idea but 1. 19-30  2. above 30 serious relationships. 1. 20 years or above. 2. 19-30 or above.

Omar5881 · Answer

I don't do hookups  For a serious relationship well not older than 6 years than me and not 6 years younger  Well there's a 6 anyways

Skeye89 · Answer

21 up age doesn't really have much to play in it for me

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