why am I giving up?
Well. You always have to do everything first and do it for a long time so you get 5% of what you gave back.
I'll give an analogy here (pencils can be favor, effort points etc...)
You give her 10 pencils. She breaks 5, uses 3 completely and gives you back 3, one being from her.
So 10 for 1.
Then she gives you 2 the next time you do that.
then when she gets 7, she asks why aren't you paying attention to her. Like the 10 you give her isn't enough anymore and then you reset.
Guys get fooled or are just satisfied with the pencils given back. Well fuck it man.
I can text a girl 100 times first and she won't ever text me, unless it's something really important.
These days both men and women have their partner for convenience.
Most Helpful Girl
You're clearly dating shitting women my friend, because let me tell you: I am no "giving back three pencils" kind of girl. I give 110% to a guy, but here's a thing: it doesn't come easy.
Winning somebody's complete and total affection takes more than being willing to text first. Most guys will do that, it doesn't make you special or deserving of any special treatment. Mind you, I believe girls should take initiative too, but you have to keep in mind that when you're feeling each other out in the beginning stages, you might meet girls who are hesitant to reach out because they have yet to decide if they like you yet. And if they aren't ever texting you, or reaching out, or returning your affection...
It's because they don't like you. It isn't because they are looking for a "convenient" partner, they are looking for a worthy one who they actually want to be with. No girl will just hand over everything you want just because you've put forward the minimal effort and think you deserve it. It should go the same for guys.
Give up if you want, but you're the one who will be missing out.0
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