First off, let me say that I am completely aware that I am a girl and that I overthink everything, so please do not tell me something that I already know. My question is related to online dating. A little background: I began messaging a guy on an online dating app about a week ago. He seemed really interested and we hit it off, talking about a lot of different things (both serious and not) and flirting quite a bit. We messaged back and forth for a few hours each day until yesterday. We very briefly messaged each other two nights ago, but I couldn't keep talking because I was out with a friend. So I told him to message me the next day (my yesterday) and he said ok. However, he never messaged me. Now this is the second day in a row that he hasn't. I feel like I put the ball in his court by asking him to message me. So... my question is: can I message him or should I wait to see what he does? Also, how much communication do you think should be occurring at such an early stage in what may not even turn into a relationship? Should we be communicating once a day?
P. S. He works very long hours, but he has messaged me at least a little bit during work before.
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It's the 21st century, message him!! I had an experience like that where I was like hmm I want to wait for him to message me, no just message him. I ended up messaging him and it became pretty good, later on the guy told me that men actually like the girls to initiate too. So just message him!!0
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