Why don't guys want girls that really want them?

I just think it is stupid that most guys rather stay single rest of their life who tries to get girls but can't don't want a woman that is interested in them and takes advantage of her.


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Most Helpful Guy

  • I wouldn't reject a girl who really wants me. The problem is that I just didn't find ones who have approached me very attractive. I hardly knew them, and they just threw themselves on me which was really off putting. I could never imagine myself being with them.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Hahahah this is too true.. This happened to me recently actually, I was dating a guy and I came on pretty strong. I backed off and almost lost interest actually but now is say he's more interested in me. Guys definitely like the chase

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    • 3mo

      What did you do that was coming on strong (just curious)

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    • 3mo

      its just questions, i dont think thats coming on strong. why shouldn't you know what you're heading into-- its logical in my opinion :)

      not that my opinion helps with him ;p

    • 3mo

      @AriadneSky haha yeah but he told me multiple times he was over her and didn't have feelings for her anymore. He also gave me no reason to assume I was a hook up... I needed too much assurance

What Guys Said 4

  • those guys your referring to are players, and girls tend to go for them, instead of the nice guys who actually want to keep a girl, but girls never want to keep the nice guys, so when does a girl ever "really" want a guy?

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  • Because it works the same way with guys being crazy about girls and yet they get rejected 100x more

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  • Because you're all clingy, and crazy. No thanks Jeff I'd rather suffer loneliness

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  • I bet you don't want the guys that want you either.

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What Girls Said 2

  • Stupidity

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  • Because they're pining after someone who won't give them the time of day.

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