I wouldn't reject a girl who really wants me. The problem is that I just didn't find ones who have approached me very attractive. I hardly knew them, and they just threw themselves on me which was really off putting. I could never imagine myself being with them.
Hahahah this is too true.. This happened to me recently actually, I was dating a guy and I came on pretty strong. I backed off and almost lost interest actually but now is say he's more interested in me. Guys definitely like the chase
those guys your referring to are players, and girls tend to go for them, instead of the nice guys who actually want to keep a girl, but girls never want to keep the nice guys, so when does a girl ever "really" want a guy?