Started dating a guy who asked me to go on a date on a Sunday and then said we'll figure the exact time and place later. So Saturday comes and he doesn't even talk about our date being the next day and then Sunday comes and he texts me and says are we still hanging out today and then makes plans the day of the planned date. Is this a red flag? why didn't he make these plans days before? :(
Most Helpful Guy
It's not a red flag yet, but I would have expected a bit more initiative from a guy in your age range. He's just not used to planning dates and he's probably worried that you might not like the plans he has made. If you like him, then tell him that you are a lot more comfortable if he will plan ahead instead of waiting.1
Most Helpful Girl
why dint you tell him its not acceptable. or make the plans yourself?
if you're not ok with him actin like your time doesn't matter an you're at his beck and call you have to let him know bc hell just think is ok then be shocked when it gets too much and you finally tell him.1