i caught my girlfriend texting another guy. We got into a fight and she said the guy texted her first. Which now he did. I was using her phone and he messaged her. i looked at the convo cause all her contacts have that persons name except this one. She sent a pic of her to him (clothed). Another text from him saying if does not work with your boyfriend I'm available. She repiled sounds good. She continued to text him through out the week even when I was with her. When I asked her about this she got mad at me. She said she's the type of girl that doesn't get what she needs from me she will go somewhere else. I don't know what to do. She said she was sorry for texting him and told me she wouldn't text him and asked me to telling him to, stop texting her. What should I do?
Most Helpful Girl
Texting the guy isn't a concern, but the content of the text is. Personally I'd end the relationship based on the content alone. It's extremely disrespectful towards you.
It seems she is keeping him as a second option. I honestly don't believe she seems bothered if she's with you or not. She's appears to be on different towards you.1
Most Helpful Guy
Tell her to go ahead and get what she needs from him, because you won't be giving her anything else besides a kick out the door.
She already admitted she's not satisfied with you and is actively seeking a replacement, save youself the trouble of dealing with a girl that would treat you like that and leave her. Plenty of girls that wouldn't do that to a guy, you just have to find her.0