So, I have been with my girlfriend for almost 3 years and she is the love of my life, I can't picture my life without her. but recently she has been hanging around with my best friend a lot, she went away for a week to his house (he lives in another town) that she's back he is staying at her house even when I leave... and when I am around neither of them really talk to me, they sing and talk to each other, am I just being paranoid or does this seem wrong to anyone else?
2.) Pay attention to where she sits and who she sits next to or closer.
3.) Notice who she walks side-by-side with.
4.) Try injecting myself into one of their conversations and see how they answer me. (Fast or well thought out.)
5) Try starting a random subject, and wait to see if and when and how long they take to add to it or not
6.) Make a surprise visit to see if they're at the same house
Most Helpful Girl
This is tough, it's like being a third wheel. Let me start by saying that I'm a girl and know many girls who act like this. Girls tend to betray those who are supposedly important to them, this is because of their ever changing mind sets. However, do bear in mind that both boys and girls do this, though more girls do it than boys. Yes, I do feel like something is wrong, your best friend and girl friend can't ignore you! I know a girl who has a tremendous crush on my boyfriend, they are good friends and like to talk to one another. Sometimes I feel that my boyfriend is closer to this girl than to me. But when we're alone together, I feel like our relationship is stronger than his relationship with this girl (they are just mutual friends anyway). What I'm trying to say is when you have some time with her, just the two of you, observe her carefully. Does she treat you the same way as he treats your friend? Is there love in her eyes? Does it feel right for her when it's just the two of you? Observe. I'm not saying to let her go if it doesn't feel right, I know how hard that is. Just follow what you think is the right solution, it's not always going to be easy. I hope I was of some help.1