I told my girlfriend how many women I slept with when she asked (it was 43 women). She got mad, and freaked out. Then demanded I get a blood test. So I did. It came back negative. Two days ago we were having an argument, and she brought this issue up. She said "you would fuck anything with a pulse!"
I calmly said: "okay." Started leaving, and she started crying and asking where I was going
So I said "You know! To fuck someone with a pulse!" She keeps texting and phoning me. What would you do?
Most Helpful Girl
No, she's not in the right to trample all over your feelings and be mean to you about your past just because she gets frustrated and upset. That's wrong on her part. However, you playing off of her insecurities by saying you were leaving to go cheat was wrong too and if anything that just made the whole situation worse.
What would I do? I wouldn't get involved with someone if I knew there was something about them or their past that I couldn't handle or didn't want to handle. It's not fair to either person. You have to go through some level of emotional rejection and maybe even have her mental attraction to you reduced and she has to feel like she's been cheated out of something. Sooner or later, it's just going to cause a whole bunch of out of whack energy.2
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Most Helpful Guy
Lol, your response was perfect.
Anyways, I don't think she's right to trash you for your past but she is entitled to her feelings. You might just be a bad match for eachother. I think its generally better if both people have similar views on sex and similar previous sexual histories. If they are vastly different, usually the one who is less experienced feels hurt and that's understandable.1