So it seems in the world of online dating that if a guy had kids the ladies (most of the time ) don't mind. While on the other had guys seem to mind a lot. Why is that? And also when do you tell them you have kids? I've always been up front about my kids (I have two.. which also seems to be a big deal) and my divorce and that seems to make a few guys very nervous. While a friend of mine also has two yet she dosent tell a guy about how many kids she has until after they have hung out for a while (she has three). So I guess the questions are. A) why do most guys freak if a woman has a kid. yet women are more accepting of it.. B) when do you tell someone you have a kid? And c) why is two the magic number that freaks guys out?
*and no I don't just want to go on a single parents dating site.
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Most guys your age don't want to have kids yet. Guys who do want to have kids could be afraid you don't want to have more kids. Guys are afraid you won't have time for them. Guys are afraid they'll end up paying for someone else's kids, or even that you're just with them for money and stability.1