There's this guy I like and I've been wondering how to get him to notice me. My friend told me I should start wearing more makeup, particularly concealer under my eyes, and he'll probably start to take notice. I'm just like how, that has nothing to do with this. I also told her I don't wear all that stuff and I refuse to change myself for anyone, especially just to get aome guy's attention. All I wear is eyeliner and mascara, eye shadow when I get dressed up. She said it's not changing myself, it's enhancing.
Even though I'm firm on what I believe it still made me feel down. I like the way I look without concealer and all that. I don't think I should have to do all of that just to get someone's attention. I feel like it wouldn't be real.
Most Helpful Guy
That's right you shouldn't change yourself for anyone. I know it's not your fault whom you like and there is nothing wrong in wanting to get the attention of whom you like as long as you are not doing something immature or playing mind games and you are not doing that.
Even if you want to do something to get their attention, that should be out of your own free will and not because that guy will like it or for other reasons. That's fine if you don't want to change yourself for anyone and you should be yourself.
Those who like you will notice you for you just being yourself.1
Most Helpful Girl
Not really, it's considered enhancing yourself in order to get noticed by the opposite gender.0