Haven't been asked out on a dinner date before lmao. Moving out of town this Saturday and maybe she found out but then she would've mentioned it so it's strange. Haven't seen her in a month or so and it was nothing serious. What would be the motives behind a girl wanting to hang out like that all of a sudden with literally no contact over a month. Srs could be overthinking this but the fucking last thing that I'd ever want her to say is that she is pregnant. She was on birth control. Is it alpha if I make her pay?
They Do Serve Fine Wine, @Fearless_banana. She asked You so I Assume she is paying. However, if you want to Show her Your "Still Good Side," Split it with her for Old times Sake. It could be she knows you are going so she Now wants to keep Things... Going. Good luck and Let me know if you are a dad. xx
Maybe she knows she won't see you for a while and wants to have a final goodbye?
How far away are you moving? Perhaps she is just realizing now that she will miss you and wants to see you off?
What's wrong with her paying for your dinner? If she wants to see you and set the date, then it's totally appropriate. Don't worry about what other people say. Isn't it nice to be treated once in a while? Much better than getting used by people for free meals.
I think you are just over thinking it. Go out, have a good time and enjoy your meal!
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Lol but seriously, she probably likes you a fair bit, maybe wants the D as a last hurrah or to start something up again because she's not aware that you're leaving. But hey if she's offering to pay, no shame in letting her. #breadsticks
Have you had Olive Garden breadsticks? That's probably the reason. Just split the bill; she pays for whatever she ordered and you pay yours. No stress and you can hang out with someone for dinner. I've gone to restaurants with male friends before, and there was no other intention.
I don't know, sometimes girls wanna just go out with a guy for no real reason. I do that sometimes, I'm going on a date tonight and I'm leaving soon. It's just kinda for fun sometimes in a way. Pay for yourself, but she doesn't have to pay for you. If you can't even pay for yourself, don't go on dates
All I know about OG is that it is a super cheap franchise USA restaurant chain often mocked in film.
If she's pregnant she's already paying for it having to carry your child. If it's a hang out then each pays if it's a date date then asker should pay but never assume and bring money anyway in my opinion.
I don't know, it sounds like a normal date. No, it's not alpha to make her pay for all of it.
I would split the bill unless she insists/offers to pay for it. Like Puppylove94 said, you aren't officially together or serious.
She could be just wanting to go for a date and see if things can go anywhere from there. I wouldn't over think it. The worst case scenario is only one scenario out of many. She really could be just wanting to go on a legit date with you and see if anything comes out of it. The month+ without contact could have been for a multitude of reasons. (i. e. maybe she was waiting for you to contact her, maybe she was wanting a separation before whatever you had going before and a legit date).
It's actually a psychological phenomenon to overestimate the negative scenarios and the odds of them happening. That could be happening here.
Point is, there are a lot of maybes. The likelihood of it being a negative scenario is just one out of many. Plus, I would have imagined that being more of a serious "we need to talk" kind of contact. I would just go on it and enjoy it for what it's worth. It's going to ruin your night if you are worried throughout she'll suddenly drop a baby bomb any minute lol
1) go in sweats show her she ain't sh*t. 2) don't bring your wallet, she paying for the meal 3) depending how classy it goes give her the D. Matter fact. Dub her. No D for her. 4) after your meal is done put your shades and and walk out like a bawse. And don't look back