Personally I would, because that kind of how I see myself. I have two personalities because of some of the shit I went through, and usually most people see my first personality, I wouldn't say its rude but it just throws out a lot of bullshit and jokes. (doesn't really take anything seriously.) A lot of people take the joking I do and such as me being a dick or being rude towards other or me not caring.
Then there is the serious affectionate side of me that only a select few get to see, which can have deep discussions, and usually when I'm in this state im very affectionate to my girlfriend, I think this also makes them more important in my life and shows it in a way because I let so few people see that side of me, or trust them enough to let them see it. So yeah, I would. It'd depend on what or how rude they were though, I'd need to see them in the act to be able to know if it was right or wrong, although you'd have to define hot for me as well.
Probably not. Because I would have to wonder why are they being nice to me only and not nice to others? I would feel they are being fake because as soon as i loose whatever they like about me they'll be a jerk to me just like they do to others.