I used to think everyone was out of my league. I got married. Turned out I was out of her league. We got divorced and by then I didn't believe in leagues anymore. When people think that someone is out of their league, what's really happening is that they don't like themselves much. They see lots of flaws in themselves and none of the good parts.
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Haha hell yeah! I dont even know why. It is just if a guy is just PERFECT in a way I see perfect. (Means they look naturally good and have a wonderful voice and personality) Then I often believe they are out of my league. I am a confident woman and I know many men think I am out of their league, but still I get nervous around the guys I think are out of my league. It is kinda sad. But I might try to make a move anyways. No harm in trying 😉 and I have realized that there really aren't any leagues, it is all about preferences..
I think most people have felt this way at least once. I felt she was far more intelligent than I was and had a better grip on the world in general, she was also very attractive physically and I wouldn't consider myself too attractive, not ugly, just not noticeable, I suppose. I was her friend for a long time, still am, I don't really want to date her although if she approached me and said she had a crush on me I'd be open to it.
- They were physically hot, that's all it is. I don't think you can put a league on anything else that makes up attraction. - Yeah i pursued them, because even hot girls can be won over by other things - Get rejected most times, score a few times - Yes - point 2
There was a blonde ballet dancer in my high school. She was incredibly beautiful and very smart. I never even considered asking her out because I assumed she wouldn't be interested. She ended up asking me out last summer and we dated for a couple of months. Go figure
They were out of my league because compared to other guys he was much hotter than me compared to other girls. And yes I pursued him haha and we went out. What a victory that was for me. And we broke up some time later when I told him I didn't want to have sex which shows maybe dating someone out of your league isn't good.