Long story short, I started asking my guys friends how well they knew him. I ended up talking to a girl who used to talk to him in a romantic way but come to find out he stopped talking to her when he started talking to me. Well she started talking to me (long msgs about everything, then changing her story) So she was clearly upset & sent him a message (I have no idea what exactly she said to him) but she claimed to have confronted him about me. He didn't even say a word to me, just blocked me so we couldn't talk at all. I msgd him a different way 2 days later & he opened the message, read it then blocked me again. When he could have ignored the message but he chose to open it. What the hell? I keep being told essentially that after some time he will come back around but what the actual fuck did I do wrong? (Idk if this matters to anyone but he is a Cancer & sometimes they do that) but anyways will he ever contact me again & explain anything to me? Or am I just gonna have to write him off forever? I just don't understand. Any advice is welcomed & appreciated. Thanks!
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you never met him right, online only? so he "flaked" after the other girl talked to him.
what did you message say? I can't stand blocking, it is so immature and lame. his reaction is lame. my guess is he comes back, but who knows. People will freak at different stages, but have to keep communicating. Keep trying for a short period of time, nicely. If doesn't work, then cut the line and move on. Maybe give it a week or two.
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