If someone is there only to use you they won't wait. If they love you they'll stay faithful and will wait as long as it takes. So if my girlfriend wants to wait, I'll respect that. I might actually even suggest that she does. It's either serious or not, and if it's not, she has no reason to sleep with me. And if it is, then it's time for marriage. But if marriage is a barrier then someone isn't being frank nor fair nor honest nor serious. And then you know you should have saved yourself when you still had the choice. No bed until marriage, it's the golden christian rule, it's what's right and trust me it shall save a lot of girl hearts.
As long as she would still smack me around and we could do oral and cuddle, I'm fine with it. Only if she is a virgin though. If she has already done it with someone else, then I wouldn't approve of her "saving herself" for marriage.
Depends, if we can't even kiss or 2nd base id be hesitant.
I was once talking to a guy who was and only a week into texting he said that the only solution to stop his sexual urges and act on it without guilt was marriage. He said that id be perfect even though he hardly knew me at all other than that I was a virgin... but im not necessarily wanting for marriage
I think the biggest issue would be that if they were not ok with you saving yourself for marriage, if you were doing it for religious purposes, then they probably do not share the same beliefs as you and you probably shouldn't be with them in the first place. But if someone really truly loves you for you then I think they should be ok with waiting until marriage.
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