My boyfriend and I have had several discussions about the dynamics of a relationship and what our desires are. Since men are driven sexually stronger than most women he has the desire to have "sex" with others. Now in general terms I'm not mad at that. However I'm afraid he's more into an open ended relationship where him and I come first and if he wants to indulge in another then we talk about it and decide what to do or that may be something that we do together. I'm all for doing it together. He don't want to date anyone else just the possibility to have sex. I'm trying to decide what I feel as being comfortable and what's not. And of coarse I get the same regards.
Is there anyone that has ever been in this type of relationship and what are somethings to consider? I don't mind being open minded but don't want to get into something that's gonna make me crazy and over emotional.
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I have been in a relationship like that. It was great. In your case it would be nice if you were bi and you could both share the other woman that way there would be a lot less chance of jealousy and insecurity on your part.1