I'm one of the few in my friend group that hasn't done anything with a boy. I'm 17 (almost 18) I've had guys interested, but they're never a good match. Usually they back off because I'm super dedicated to my sport. Anyways, with the 1 boyfriend I've had, we lasted for 3 months and didn't even kiss. We held hands and cuddled but nothing past that. My friends say guys won't be into someone as inexperienced and innocent as me when I get to college next year... I'm a little concerned that college guys won't like me because of that.
I don't think so but some might be. I don't think its actually that they don't find innocence unattractive so much as that's, to them, a big responsibility. Basicly if she is innocent then what ever goes wrong is on them, that is if she leaves the relationship with baggage then its because of them and them alone and for some I think that can be intimidating because guys really don't want to be the one to for lack of a better term "break" a girl. Does that make sense? However I think a lot of guys will like a girl who is innocent especially if they themselves are looking for a serious relationship. So all in all I would say don't worry about it as its all dependent on what they are looking for and if your looking for something serious then I think those guys who are too will actually view it as a good thing.
"My friends say guys won't be into someone as inexperienced and innocent as me when I get to college next year... " Bullshit! You think college students like me prefer the slut type that slept with all of their high school class? Don't let them fool you. Innocence is really sweet and attractive. And if you're innocent and sporty, it becomes like "wow". I really like that. And I also like a proud, self assured lady too. "I'm a little concerned that college guys won't like me because of that. " They'll like you FOR that. Haha. Doesn't mean they have much good to offer tho, so Watch out. You don't want to be yet another victim of empty, horny males. Trust a male to know what he's talkin' about.
Being innocent isn't an issue. You've said you dated for 3 months and guys back off because you're super into your spot. I don't care if a girl is 'innocent', if she's not flirting at all, not wanting to cuddle or progress at all, thats when it would be a bit of a turnoff.
Being naive can get a little annoying. The real issue is if you go for a kiss or something and she pulls away, and the fact that you are so dedicated to your sport that people feel neglected and leave.