Please help me, I am a bit disappointed in my crush, but my feelings are stronger than ever :'(
He is 26 (I am 28). I am friends with his sister. I came back from beach holiday and visited his sis and fam. I got them a souvenir but not to him. As a way of meeting up with him, I msgd him a few days later, "... how I forgot to give him a souvenir. I asked if he is free to meet day after for few minutes or to come by my place to give him present. I also wrote how I need to ask him something." Anyway, he replied: "Hey Anna* I got work on next few days so I have little time. How about when my sis comes back from her trip:)". It was along those lines (in my language), no question mark. I didn't reply as I was quite upset. by the way, his sis came back few days ago.
Does he suspect I got a crush on him maybe? Why mention his sis? Could he be shy or avoiding me? Since then he like 2 of my insta pics. We've known each other for 2 years and I liked him from the start...
His birthday is in 3 days. Should I ignore it? Should I ask him to meet again? I don't know whether to play hard to get OR chase him OR confess my crush? I am an amazing girl truly, bit shy, but nice, smart, friendly, pretty too. Before I sort of sensed he liked me, I don't get him... I've been crying all past week, lost 3 kgs as I can't eat :(((
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You should totally try to ask to see him again. Please eat something, don't stare yourself. its not worth it over someone because I've done that as well before and it creates way to many problems for you and anyone else who gets involved. Just ask him again and clarify that you want to see him and him alone first, then his sister can be involved after.