To start things off I'm not complaining at all, just curios. so I've been talking to this guy for about 2 months. He gives me kisses, holds me and cuddles but nothing sexual. Today I had a tube dress on and I sent him a picture of my new hair cut, it look like I didn't have anything on. He said I looked beautiful and asked if I was naked with a shocked emoji face. I told him I had a dress on and I flirted with him asking "do you want me to be naked." His response was " oh no dear, don't worry dear." Him being not so sexual makes me want to be sexual with him. lol could it be because of his background? He's African and Christian. Has this ever happened to anyone?
Most Helpful Guy
He's Christian and male?
He's sexual. BUT he's got an image to and morality to maintain and he feels that doing something wrong will result in a massive amount of backlash from friends and family If anyone find out (more backlash than in a non religious environment)
Would he like nudes? Yes. Would he ever ask for them? No.
I would recommend saying something like "I won't tell anyone ;)" gain his trust. He's afraid of consequenses as all Christians are. It's also possible he just doesn't want to. But make him feel comfortable with either choice.
-a Christian with tons of Christian friends.0
Most Helpful Girl
He is a Christian, and knows how to respect a lady. Especially since he is African and a Christian. Any form of sexual activity before marriage is forbidden. He asked because he was curious at what you sent him. As long as you are okay with this, there shouldn't be a problem. Usually other people will take that as a sign of no further interested and will leave the relationship, making the other person heartbroken. He very much likes you and I'm sure he is sexually attracted you, but that doesn't mean he has to have sex with you. He is saving that special part of him for marriage and very much might see you in that married future if you feel the same way.0