this girl is a nurse we been seeing each other from March to August been on 3 dates but been in contact via text and phone over that time due to her being a nurse so constantly busy.
She agreed to a fourth date and says she likes me a lot, I wanted to be in a relationship but she said she would like to but can't commit unless I drive but I explained to her it's only 20 mins longer by train. I care about her a lot and wanted to know if saying I love you over text is too soon as I feel im losing her?
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For your situation, it's too early because she's clearly not at that level with you yet. I've had relationships tell me within the month and I've been with them for 3 years so there's not real "right time" it's more about where you are within your relationship with that person. She's basing a relationship on your ability to drive which is kind of a red flag for me because if you really love someone, you try and make it work rather than make up conditions.
I also read your question about her last text, she's not interested. No matter how busy you are, you make time for someone who you truly care about and want to be with. If she wanted to be with you she would just be telling you that she's busy and you might not see each other much, but not outright saying that you should not be together.0