this is a serious question and concern of mine. i've even dated a few (although it NEVER lasted long lol) i don't wanna act like it's always those guys' fault (although it may be that way at times) so what could i fix about my personality to stop attracting these types? I feel like i'm the kind of person whose nice to everyone, so these guys take that too serious? i've also had issues with boundaries. how can i better myself to stop this from happening?
I feel like I only attack crazy, creepy, or clingy guys... help?
What Guys Said 2
I wouldn't think about what you can change about your personality (you are who you are), I'd look at the guys you're dating and why you pick them? Try dating different types of guys then you'd normally go for. Do you always wait for or go out with the guys that ask you out? Try asking out a guy you're interested in first? @Fearless_bananna is partially right, it's about picking up on these "red flags" and cues and recognizing them early. And don't think a guy will change or that you can change him if you stick with him, yes it's possible but highly unlikely.1
What Girls Said 1
I am that way too and I don't know what to do because I have a genuine love for everyone so people take advantage of that 😔1
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