Okkk, so I called him tonight (and you were right KareAnne, he was indeed happy to hear from me 😊). After ascertaining how his day was (hot, tiredsome, etc) I told him how happy I was about his response, etc, complimented him in that he's very forgiving, it took a lot of strength, etc. Then he basically said the subject matter is closed, there's no need to talk about it anymore, to bring it up again. I mentioned the main reason I called. We talked. It was good. Then he dropped the bomb! He's going to be quite busy for at least three months, going away. There was really nothing i could say about that or prevent him even if i tried, which wouldn't make a bit of sense since he's a grown man. Well, we talked a bit more, he told me what he fixed for dinner (very nutritious, i was impressed because i eat organic). Then, upon ending our conversation he said "it's good to hear your voice again. We'll talk some more." I really have no rights to him seeing he's not my man because for one thing it's not even a month that we met, though so far from what I'm seeing, I sure wish he was! Oh well, whatever happens will happen. Opinion?
It sounds like a "He Said, She Said," and Now... He is making Lame duck Excuses to Not Discuss any More Sore Subjects. He may have Grown Cold Duck feet and now is Finding a Way to "Disappear" by either telling you a White Lie or to give you a Helpful Hint With, "Don't call me, I'll call you." Let him Make the next Move now here, dear. If it is Meant to Be, it will Be. Good luck. xx
Well it seems like he's not that into you. I don't know how often you guys communicating but you initiated the call first. He could have called you already if he wants to talk to you. It's a good sign that he answered your call though. But don't read too much into him being nice over the phone. He's going away for 3 months? for work? If he's interested he will call you make sure you remember him and just give you a reminder that he's thinking of you. And he will text you every day, sending a text to someone is really no big deal takes only few seconds to send a text. So just wait and see if he calls, texts you. If he doesn't, you know he's not into you. Being busy can never be an excuse. he could be away for 3 months no one can control that, but still he will initiate the contact every day if you're on his mind.