I've been talking to this guy from an online dating app and well we met in person (todsy is the second day of us meeting) and the first day we met we talked got to know each other and stuff. Today we did the same thing we talked and stuff. Then later on we sat on a bench at a park and he moved closer to me and slowly put his arm around me and we were just talking and then he kissed me and we started kissing and then while kissing he said he loves me which I definitely know it's not true and it was in the moment type of thing and he kept saying that I'm beautiful and well what happened next is that he said "Leah will you be my gf" and I said yes and that was pretty much it. Well at the end he walked me to the bus stop while holding my hand and he gave me bus tickets and kissed me goodbye but before we said bye to each other he asked me if I can come to his place tomorrow to watch Netflix and hangout and I said sure (he first asked this while we were kissing). I mean I really like this guy so far but does he actually like me or does he just want me for sex? And why would he ask me to be his girlfriend if he just wanted sex?
Most Helpful Guy
Girl you need to get you some bear mace or at least some wasp spray to carry with your butt.
Personally I dont get the rush to the sack with a chick you are actually into. If its a hotness thing then, yea, but this dude is either setting you up for some quick wham bam or is a 3rd degree clinger.
He used the "i love you" line after three dates... doesn't that move stop working at around 14 years old?
Ultimately you need to decide if your ready for the sex, cause thats what this is about and by now you should know this. If your into it and are fine with a possible simple "booty call" then have fun but be cautious since you really dont know diddly about this dude. If its a relationship you are wanting then dont go, simply tell him things are moving a bit faster than your comfortable with and you would rather go to the movies or some shit that you young folks do... catch some pokemon? If he is actually into you for more than just to diddle your private parts, he will be cool with waiting. That will give you your insight right there.
Good Luck and Be Safe!1
Most Helpful Girl
First of all I would have freaked out if a guy I just met, only twice, told me that he loves me. I mean of course there must been a strong connection, but that's just not right. just because you guys get along great during the first two dates, doesn't mean you just fall in love with that person like that. There's still so much things you don't know about each other.
I'm in the same situation as yours. I met this guy online, we been on dates twice, we kissed on our second date. We get along great, I can see he likes me very much by the way he's been treating me. But I would have weirded out if he said that he loves me on our second date...
you not sure if your guy is only up for sex or he really sees you as a girlfriend material, just take things slow and see how he treats you. Tell him that you want to take things slow and see what he has to say about that. If he really loves you like he says and sees you as his girlfriend, he will understand and respect that. He will wait if he's a good guy who wants to have a relationship with you. If he doesn't and leaves you, you know what he's up for.
Also try to see how he treats you between the dates. how attentive he is. The guy I'm seeing texts me every day, good morning/night texts, he texts me pretty much through out the day checking what I'm up to, and if I'm out with my friends he makes sure if I'm having a good time, if I got home safe. Like those little things a guy does show what his intentions are. Of course this guy will want sex eventually. But I'm going to take things slow and not give that up easy because I want a relationship with him, I want him to see me, respect me as a girlfriend material not an easy hook up. And I just know that he will respect that and wait for the special moment because thats the impression I got. If this guy leaves me because I asked him to take things slow, then I know he's not the right one and he doesn't deserve me.
But from the way it sounds, I don't really trust your guy. It seems like he's probably like that to all girls he's dating. I don't know. I need more details like how he treats you every day, his behavior and stuffs.