Why do girls/women think they can change the bad boy?

I can never understand it. Women say bad boys have the trait of confidence and blah blah blah while the nice guys seem too weak for them because they're nice so it's basically a paradox. Why would they go for bad boy just for them to change him into a nice guy instead of just going for the nice guy in the first place and leaving the nice guy who has a lot to offer in the dust?


0|0
2|4

Most Helpful Girl

  • Because of the stupid movies that create a nonsense fantasy for them. I like it how the bad boy or player character who always ends up being with the good girl and settle down with her leaving all his bad boy life lol.

    0|0
    0|0

Most Helpful Guy

  • They need both, but it is the bad boy that naturally attracts them in the first place. It is the nice guy that is more nurturing and better long-term partner and father after the fact.

    0|0
    0|0

What Girls Said 1

What Guys Said 3

  • They're delusional.

    0|0
    0|0
  • They don't want a nice guy! Get that through your head. They don't want to take a bad boy and turn him into a nice guy.

    Nice guys are boring as fuck.

    0|0
    0|0
    • 3mo

      Ok. Then bad boys will end up hurting her and the bad boys dating around while having a girlfriend. (a. k. a cheating) gotchu.

  • They never learn until it's to late that you really can't change people, they tend to mellow out a little with age but that's it

    0|0
    0|0
    • 3mo

      Yeah It's kinda a shame

    • 3mo

      Yeah it sucks because we miss out on the hot ones while they get used and abused and finally realize they messed up

    • 3mo

      We nice guys don't deserve to settle for less

Loading...