Going into college soon and experiencing a crisis... I'm convinced a guy won't love me. I've had many failed, short relationships throughout high school. I'm pretty, smart, but often jealous and a bit insecure. Will the right guy come around?
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Only the future, fate, destiny can really answer this question. We'd all like to believe that we'll be loved. The heart can be fooled into believing that the person they're with loves them. The judgement can be clouded into believing we actually love someone when we really don't, or we can be with someone for the wrong reasons and stay with them out of the infatuation of the hope for love. This being said, there are items you can do to try and stack the deck in your favor. For starters, try not be so insecure. And jealousy is a negative emotion. Cultivate more positive ones. You're smart. You know the ones' I'm referring to. A cheerful person is easier to be around and love more than an individual who is paranoid due to their insecurities and jealousy issues. Do things which boost your self-esteem and confidence and move on from there. This is my advice.0