I tried googling it, but most suggestions for girls are downright profane, describing what kind of sexual acts they would do. Is that really what people do?
I mean everyone I know is on tinder and no one I know has had a hook up through it. Most people are looking to date or for a relationship. So are you still meant to write something sexual?
And if not, what else do you write? Like do you write about your life goals, your hobbies, your pets and stuff like that?
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I feel like most guys on Tinder just want to hookup and won't really care too much about what is in your profile.
Assuming I was on tinder looking for a relationship, I guess I would want to see basic personality traits, interests/hobbies, and what type of relationship you're looking for. Although a lot of guys are skeptical of the girls who say "I dont to hookups". Its really cliche and realisticaly a good portion of them are full of shit.
Maybe include what type qualities you are looking for in guy you are looking for too. But keep it all brief, I don't think anyone on Tinder wants to read a novel. They just want to look at the profile for a few seconds, make a decision and then swipe accordingly.
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Oh god I was just in the same boat with you. The stupid suggestions I found online for girls are ridiculous. Most men in my area are trying to hook up but I know lots friends and friends of friends that got b/fs so I'm trying not to get turned off to it too quickly. Even the guys who "claim" they are looking for something "real" or an LTR just want to get down fast. I did find a few gems here and there I could get into but ghosting is apparently a thing now.
Anyway I just decided to keep my bio real. I talked about my interests and hinted at what I do for a living. Then I said enough to show that I have my shit together without using those exact words. Then implied I was okay with pre-existing offspring. I also clearly stated I was looking for a "real relationship" gave my height then I let the photos say the rest.
Tinder is frustrating as fuck when you're not looking for quick dick. With each "gem" I find I get closer to an actual meet up so keeping my fingers crossed. I'm tempted to pay for a month and get matches from people I've actually swiped on and not those spam swipers. I'm learning the hard way that the male population just swipes right on every girl and selects from the girls that pick them. Can you say #counterproductive? Expect to have to make the first move on the matches you're really interested in. Good luck!0