He's got sex from me a few times.
He still messages me, asks me if I enjoy cuddles instead of just sex. Gets wound up if he finds out I've tried something sexual with my ex that he wants to try.
Gets angry when I mention my ex boyfriend and doesn't want to hear about him, but he isn't making any other moves, baring in mind we've been speaking everyday for 3 months.
Is he shy or does he just want sex? Does he want something more?
Most Helpful Guy
He wants you only for him and you're a girl who cannot be so attached to only one, and he gets angry, he wants you to be completely owned by him.
To do all the nice things with him, making compliments for him not for your ex boyfriend, with the time he will obsessed and marry to you.0
Most Helpful Girl
Hun he is not shy at all.
You are just friends with benefits to him. And a lot of times guys hate it when their friends with benefits hooking up/sleeping with other guys, or in your case, telling them about your experience with your ex. They can get jealous, it doesn't necessary mean that they sees you as more than friends with benefits. It's like their ego thing nothing to do with them developing feelings for you.
If he really liked you more than just a hook up buddy, he would have taken you out to a date or planned something fun like date-activities so you guys can hang out get to know each other more outside the bedroom.
And lastly, he would have just asked you to be his girlfriend already.
I don't know. I never understand this friends with benefits relationship. I think if a guy really likes the girl more than a booty call, he will treat you like one, he will respect you as one. not just keep pounding you and leave you hanging like this.
You asked him if he likes you more than FWB? and he said you were being stupid even asking that question? That means he only sees you as friends with benefits nothing more and he just trying to avoid that question because he doesn't want to lose you (your vagina). it seems you want more than friends with benefits from him so why don't you cut everything off now and see what he does about that.1