usually when girls pursue a guy she makes the same mistakes, doesn't make moves to let a guy know exactly what she wants after, or does a little and stops, and thats why they fail. and most guys are not going to purse girls because guys risk rejection way more than a girl does, its the girl who chooses who she wants anyways, unless they are guys who are players, so good luck with that.
I liked being pursued but under the right circumstances. Which means I was doing something normal or an interest when we met. Though I found bars fun sometimes (the ones that have live music, comedy shows, or dance contests) I don't like the drunk pick up bars. I didn't like approaching people not because I couldn't handle rejection but if I misjudged what they might be like it could get unpleasant. As for being pursued I don't like hard hitters. They being over the top or heavy on trying to get results only want laid. I'm not a prude but I got tired of drama a long time ago when I was much younger.
let them pursue me in the beginning, then it becomes more equal. it never ends well for women who chase men. it's not cute. a man who is actually interested in you will be making effort. if he doesn't then obviously he isn't really into you
I always seem to like it when guys pursue me. Like with my boyfriend now, he was the one who sought me out. He knew he wanted to be with me before I knew myself. But when it came to making the moves in the relationship, he left that to me. For instance, asking him for his number, holding hands and even our first kiss, he put all of that in my hands. It actually built confidence in myself. I definitely like the way he went about things, not putting much pressure on me like some guys would. I hope this helps answer your question! :)
I agree. Everytime I have pursued, it's been a bust. Everytime I've been pursued- well, it's hot as hell. Right now, I'm being very confidently pursued and I've just as much fallen for the guy. I tell you, guys, it works!