I rather for them to pursue me for now on because it doesn't work out if I pursue them.
Most Helpful Guy
usually when girls pursue a guy she makes the same mistakes, doesn't make moves to let a guy know exactly what she wants after, or does a little and stops, and thats why they fail.
and most guys are not going to purse girls because guys risk rejection way more than a girl does, its the girl who chooses who she wants anyways, unless they are guys who are players, so good luck with that.1
Most Helpful Girl
I liked being pursued but under the right circumstances. Which means I was doing something normal or an interest when we met. Though I found bars fun sometimes (the ones that have live music, comedy shows, or dance contests) I don't like the drunk pick up bars. I didn't like approaching people not because I couldn't handle rejection but if I misjudged what they might be like it could get unpleasant. As for being pursued I don't like hard hitters. They being over the top or heavy on trying to get results only want laid. I'm not a prude but I got tired of drama a long time ago when I was much younger.0