Do guys really care about breast/butt size?

[Ambz101]

So I'm 19, and looking for a boyfriend. The thing is, I have a really fast matabalosim, and that kinda results in me being very petite. I mean I'm 5'5" and about 110 pounds, I have barely anything there. It's something I'm very self conscience of, but I want to know... Do guys really care about that stuff? And if they do what do guys think of my Taylor swift body type? I just want to put that question to bed, do guys care about the size of my boobs?

[CoralSun]

The important thing is sex appeal which can be achieved no matter how much tits and azz you have. If a guy is into you and feels like you could have something special, then he's not just going to throw it all away over that! And if he does then he's a dumb ass and you're better off without him. 😌

Something else that may make you feel better is to just focus on the physical gifts that you do have. From what I can see in that little bubble, you have a gorgeous face and you could really emphasize on your eyes; how to use them and how to really make them stand out because they're big and pretty. Make sure you take really good care of your hair and keep it strong, healthy, bouncy, and always smelling fresh. Because you're naturally petite with a fast metabolism, it's easier for you to achieve toned abs. So just try not to focus too much on feelings of inadequacy and learn to make the most out of your strengths.

[RemonsterMan]

Your second paragraph is great advice, but the first one is selling her a lie. There's a limit to how sexy you can become if you have very little to work with. It's simply less universally appealing.

[CoralSun]

@RemonsterMan Not based on what I've seen! I've seen some of the most anti-aesthetic females pull hot guys because they had damn good sex appeal

[RemonsterMan]

@CoralSun Well I suppose you're right in the sense that most men, even the more attractive ones, turn into doggies when encountering a woman who has no problem attacking her prey, or so to speak.

[CoralSun]

@RemonsterMan Lol, loving the terminology. ;)

[BoopBoopBeep]

Or they were less drama. "Show me the hottest woman in the world and I'll find you a man who was sick of her shit" as the saying goes. A "less attractive" feminine woman is far hotter than an argumentative "10" any day of the week.

[KCBryce]

@BoopBoopBeep or women from somewhere other than the USA, women have this over inflated ego Spain Porrtagul and places like Iceland have wownderful women who anyone can talk too and they are down to earth

[BoopBoopBeep]

@KCBryce absolutely true.

[Prncz_Priyz]

Girl, let a guy love u for who u r not for who they want u to be like based on their preferences n also when u love urself for who u r people around u r automatically attracted to u... take me for example... i am a bit chubby... initially I used to hate myself n that's y people around me never gave me any importance then when I started loving myself for who I am n embracing myself people around me started liking me... in no time I became an it girl n everyone wants to date me so people see u the way u see urself... u know they also say one man's meat is another man's garbage... if u look at the opinions some people said that they kind while others said that they don't... so it isn't a general thing... it varies from man to man... so just be u n be confident n soon someone is bound to ask u out

[RemonsterMan]

It's true that a healthy dose of self-confidence really changes how the people around you perceive you, and makes you more attractive despite being at the same weight, or close to it. The same holds true for me, since I'm anything but skinny, but ever since I started accepting it (while still doing my best to lose weight, mind you, staying fat is not my intention), I've been getting a lot more attention. However, do not fall for the scam that is fat-acceptance. After all, staying at a relatively healthy weight is important for your health in the long term.

[Prncz_Priyz]

@RemonsterMan I agree with u... I am also working on losing my weight but I am just saying let people accept u for who u r n not who they want u to be... if u wanna change change for urself by ur own will not for what someone else wants

[RemonsterMan]

Well, my views on that are a bit more controversial than yours, since I firmly believe in taking personal responsibility for your own actions at all times. Do you really think people accepted me for "who i am" back when I was hella ugly and morbidly obese? It really doesn't work that way. Being unhealthy limits your options, especially for guys. Furthermore, I had to change certain undesirable aspects of my personality that were doing me more harm than good. If I refused while saying something like "screw other people, they'll just have to take me as I am!", I never would have gotten as far ahead in life as I am today. Sometimes, you really do have to change for others. In my opinion.

[RemonsterMan]

Or to put it this way: Sometimes you have to realize that certain character traits of yours are holding you back in life. Either you swallow your ego and work hard to better your character, or you get defensive, build a nice little comfy bubble around yourself, push away anyone who tries to talk sense into you, and end up being very disgruntled and unhappy. All because your ego got in your way. Just talking from personal experience. I've seen both sides of the coin.

[Prncz_Priyz]

@RemonsterMan this is what I ve to say... I ve been slightly obese... I lost weight coz I started eating healthy but it was for myself... if people only like u for ur physical body then r u really sure that those people r good? What I ve learnt is that people should love u for ur inner self... if u r beautiful on the inside then u automatically become beautiful on the outside... it's just about the way u look at things

[Anonymous]

Some guys do care about body types like big boobs and big butt. But those are the wrongs guys. You wanna date a guy who loves you for you. Body and all. You eventually will find that but until then work on yourself. Don't not be insecure about your body , because all body types are beautiful. Goodluck

[dogbert444]

Upvoted!

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@dogbert444 😘

[RemonsterMan]

"Some guys do care about body types like big boobs and big butt. But those are the wrongs guys" For her, yes. But liking T&A is nothing more than a perfectly normal, healthy preference. In fact, wide hips and breasts signal superior genes.

[dogbert444]

@RemonsterMan I'd rather have a superior personality. Stuff the genes! LOL!

[ak666]

I do care but I actually prefer *smaller* breasts and don't really care so much about butt size as long as it's not like monstrously large and seems completely out of proportion.

So I'm still a superficial bastard but the range of girls I'm attracted to are generally on the slim side (all ethnicities) and generally won't have very big breasts or butts.

>> And if they do what do guys think of my Taylor swift body type?

Taylor Swift is actually in the absolute ideal range for me (Shakira is another on the toned side of my ideal preference). The women I was most physically attracted to after falling madly in love for them all had this kind of body type.

[dogbert444]

If your boobs are small, then they sound amazing. The rest of you sounds pretty good, too! Bit taller than my ideal, but I'm not going to argue about that!

I don't think you'll have any trouble finding a guy! Half like big boobs. The other half likes small boobs.

[dogbert444]

Welcome to GAG, as well! Enjoy your stay!

[Babeznpalmz]

Doesn't matter to me.

[Valkyria]

Guys absolutely fall head over heels for women regardless of their bodies. Of course, though, a skinny person is more likely to fall in love with a skinny person, and so forth. The only people who care about genitalia size on either men or women are only the superficial ones who are mainly there to have sex with you rather than an authentic relationship and putting things above that.

The men who truly love women honestly don't care. I'd say the first thing they notice and fall in love with is your face, such as your eyes or your smile, then perhaps your personality and your voice. But to most men, a woman with tits is still a woman with tits, doesn't matter what they look like, they'd either be fine with it since you're a woman either way, or they may in fact prefer a smaller woman.

They'll like you for you. When you're in love your appearance is irrelevant. And in fact, I'd say men who like small breasts are actually rather common.

[Losalt]

I prefer both to be small and firm personally.
But one thing about guys preferences is that we usually have many but rarely have any or many that's deal breakers instead caring about the overall balance between them.
So even if a girl isn't the perfect body for me if I'm happy enough with her personality for instance and her body is okay I'll be fine.

Does that make sense?

[tiamatx]

I don't care about the size. I do care that they are not fake.

[veganrogue]

I'm an equal opportunity guy when it comes to curves, boobs and butt size, however my preference is slender. What turns me on is thin frame with a lean fit body. I've had plenty of girlfriends in the past with huge boobs and junk in the trunk, but what get's me salivating is your body type.

[Holsen]

Personally I think that as long as the girl looks naturally good overall , I don’t care to focus in small details like that!!

[Pinay_ako]

I have small breasts but a big butt. I’m petite. I eat whatever I want. Idc what a guy thinks of me. I put on my clothes and dress to impress me. You should care for yourself for YOU. The right guy will look at you and only see beauty no matter what you look like.

[Slay256]

And tbh being skinny is not that bad. There’s guys out there that like skinny girls.

[summiter]

Do not overthink it! You sound find. The body is just a shell it is the person inside that counts., I actually prefer smaller boobs and a toned smaller butt. Any boyfriend you get will be lucky and I hope the sex that follows is way fun! What have past boyfriends said... anything?

[SeriouslyFunny00]

Some guys do, but from overall *interviews* guys don't care about how big or small your goods are. Who you are as a person still will be the most important at the end of the day... and the CHEMISTRY! Wooh! The most important, haha. Continue being confident sis <3

[Billlewis]

I'm not that concerned about her boobs, but I want her butt to be as big as possible.

[DarkHumorRUs]

Guys like petite girls.
Guys care more about pretty faces and personalities than breasts/butts.

[Adaeva]

Your breast size of of little importance. What does matter is you waist to hip ratio (0.7 is ideal. At your age below 0,8 is not good) , your degree of bilateral symmetry, and if you have smooth clear skin.

[abc3643]

In your case I would not worry about it

[Ambz101]

Lol what do you mean "in your case"? 😅

[abc3643]

Because you are a good-looking young woman and even if you had small breasts that will not be a problem for the vast amount of guys who would be more than happy to be with you.

[posted]

If you search you'll find 23783972 opinions basically saying yes.
Most guys I know don't really mind small tits, if they have a nice ass.

[Truthatanycost]

Yes guys do care about butt / breast size and they always will. But there are plenty of men with all kinds of preferences. I prefer thick women, but I've met more petite ones that are just as attractive in different ways.

[ThisDudeHere]

I care more about butt size than breast size. So long as she has a fine ass, breasts barely matter, unless they're completely fat.

[TheThingALing]

Breast size no. Butt size yes. I don't want to see an ass that they call phat. Let's call it what it is fat.

[Luci92]

It really depends on the guy, some do, some don't.
I'm sure you'll find someone who likes you just the way you are though :)

[ilovesexyfeet]

Not at all as long as you have nice feet :-D

[Decoded93]

Your weight and height are great, guys like a range of body types usually because the woman they date can change their body type dramatically, think of your body before and after having kids for example

Anyways my ex girlfriend has your body type and all my guy friends are jealous of me lmao her boobs and butt aren't that big but they have a great shape

[Sarah38]

Just look for will accept ur personality. Those guys who just interested ur body only if there a chance with another girls will leave immediately.