Would you make plans to go out with a girl if you're not interested in her?

A guy I like who has shown interest in me suggested we go out a couple of days ago. I agreed. Then a few days later, he didn't initiate a new conversation until I sent him a text three days later. I asked him if he still wanted to go out and he said "yes!!! sorry i've been busy". He usually doesn't text a lot and takes long to respond, but I always wonder, why? Could he not be interested in me even though he made plans to go out? What could be happening here?

Updates:
3mo I'm asking because he's taking too long to respond again, which is worrying me.

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What Guys Said 1

  • I don't see why not i can plan stuff with a good female friend.

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    • 3mo

      It's more of a date.

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    • 3mo

      So do you think he could still be interested even if he takes days to respond in between messages?

    • 3mo

      Yes of course don't nake early assumptions.

What Girls Said 1

  • He might be interested in you, but that doesn't mean he is not currently dating other chicks as well.

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    • 3mo

      He usually takes on average 3 days to initiate a new convo. It's been 5 days now... Do you think there's a chance I'll hear back from him at this point? I just don't know why he would initiate plans if he wasn't interested in me...

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