I just went through this with my recent boyfriend. He wasn't over his ex (children's mother) and I'm completely devastated and heartbroken. I fell head over heels for him and have been hurting for 2 weeks over this loss. It took me over a decade to find someone like him. God only knows if I ever will again.
Please, for the sake of the other party, finish your business before pursuing anything.
No. Always tie up loose ends and never leave unfinished business before you move along to the next romantic experience. Otherwise, things are likely to get messy and you might even end up spoiling your new experience with someone else.
What's unfinished about the current situation? Aside from you being wishy washy about it. You are either with your current guy as bf/gf or you are not. Since you never were. Tell the current guy you have move on. Take care. Clean cut. Tell the new guy you were in a messy situation and need a week or month or whatever time you need to start a new relatinship. Stop creating drama.
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