I was seeing this guy for several months, we got into an argument, and he's ghosted me since then. The thing is he texts me on seldom occasions saying things like we'll talk eventually in person about everything. It's been a month since we had this argument! I've been trying to see him to have this conversation but he won't give me a date or time and just goes ghost again. He tells me he has things he wants to say to me, but won't say them instead he just stops responding. Wtf? What would you do?
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The best way to deal with someone like that is " Don't" stop responding to his messages -block him if you have to. If you notice this person operates strictly on their own whims with almost no respect for you as an equal- Do you really believe it'll change once he "comes around-if ever"? - it won't. Put yourself in his shoes for a moment. If you were dealing with someone you liked can you think of any reason- ANY reason at all where you would be ignoring their messages or ghosting for long periods of time and not reassure with that reason or at least a hint to it?
The only reason I can think of in a situation like that is someone with serious emotional/psychological issues who may be borderline suicidal or bipolar which in this case I highly highly doubt. He is probably just a fuck boy who is probably dealing with multiple girls or may even be in a relationship. in my opinion you're setting yourself up for a really big disappointment that is currently being dragged out- nip it in the bud forget about this dude and move on there is always always always something better out there.0