No matter how many guys tell me I'm pretty, I will never feel beautiful. My body isn't perfect, I have a huge forehead, my hair isn't thick and luscious. I see so many imperfections and I want nothing more than for someone to love me despite all that is wrong with me. Can guys love a girl despite less than perfect looks? I'm concerned I will never be enough.
Most Helpful Guy
We all self criticize and tear ourselves apart in front of the mirror at times.
Even those that rare men and ladies that appear as if they just dropped in from heaven for a short layover. It takes a lot of work to look like that and I promise you that there are moments that each of them look in the mirror at some point and say to themselves, "holy shit, is my nose getting bigger! why are my ears not level, and my right boob is bigger than my left". When you do fall in love, if it's right, then you will begin to understand that it doesn't matter much in the scheme of things. But even then you will occasionally find yourself in front of the mirror tearing yourself apart again.
If you want some pointers, use the How do I look section and drop a few photos. I can promise you this you will get feed back. There will be some negative and some positive nothing is absolute, but you will also encounter members here who will actually give you some very good advice. Just be open to good criticism and guarded vs the mean and rude comments. I have seen folks on here chew up teenagers who do this and spit them out.
Beyond all of that, stop fixating on yourself in the mirror. Dress sharp, smile and laugh, hang out and be social, be available. The rest will just happen.0
Most Helpful Girl
Men will date a beautiful woman but will run once he finds out she is negative and lack self esteem and that's not fun to be around. He may stay to keep you as an option till he finds a less attractive woman but with a better attitude.
That's why you hear all these beautiful women crying when their boyfriend leave fir less attractive wimen..
Now you know what you need to do?