This is a real quote from a profile on OKCupid.
- Yes12% (4)31% (16)24% (20)Vote
- No25% (8)67% (34)51% (42)Vote
- I'm a girl63% (20)2% (1)25% (21)Vote
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I mean... OK, some guys are put off by a woman's sexual history, others aren't.
But, even putting that aside -- OMG the way she wrote this!
She's literally broadcasting that this "serious" thing, that she wants, is NOT GOING TO BE FUN.
That's what she is LITERALLY SAYING. "Her fun" is past tense.
I mean... sure, this will still attract *some* guys -- namely, the ones who think of "fun" as something to get out of yr system while you're young, and who think of marriage/commitment as something that's inevitably stolid, boring, routine, and pretty much the death of "fun" in every way imaginable.
If I was the guy? Nope. Five sizes and seven colors of oh HELL no.
Marriage is SUPPOSED to be fun! And addictive, and fulfilling, and all those other kinds of awesomeness. While being VERY "serious" at the same time.0