I'm talking to a guy who takes days to respond in between messages, but shows a tremendous amount of interest in me when we talk. We're going out on a date soon. Everyone keeps saying that if he's taking days to respond, that he's not interested... But, he does show interest in me... I'm really confused and can't figure out why he takes days to respond if he appears to be so into me. I'm thinking that maybe he's not sure about me and wants to take things slowly?
Would you take days to respond to a girl if you are still figuring out where you want the relationship to go?
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What Girls Said 1
"he is dangling a piece of meat in front of you.
also the date hasn't happened yet right? "
It doesn't matter how many ways you ask the same question on GAG, you don't want to hear what we are telling you.
you can wait and wait and wait...
it also shows your lack of self esteem and he is hurting your confidence...
you need to get out and meet other people and have a life. guys can see through you.
everyone told you after 1 day, done...
also he didn't make a definite plan with you...
Definite plan -
Guy - hey, what kind of food do you like?
Girl - i love..., ..., ...
Guy - (text her 3 diff. types of restaurants. for her to chose) because her opinion matters to him
Girl - I wold love to go to...
Guy - Great, will Friday or Saturday dinner work better for you?
Girl - Friday.
Guy - what time?
You get it?
you have to love youself first.
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