I started talking to a guy online a few days ago and planned to go out with him tonight. I have had some red flags like him trying to get a second date after not even having a first date, and keep telling me he wants to kiss me before he's even met me and that he hopes I will want to wake up next to him in the future. I thought about giving him the benefit of the doubt and meet him but decided, nope, this is too much.
How do I let him down? Should I be honest and tell him he is being way too forward or should I go with a more gentle tact and say that I don't think I am the person that can give him what he needs or wants?
He is really freaking me out
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If you feel like going out with someone makes you feel uncomfortable, then you shouldn't go. But you can't put off the inevitable so I would recommend texting him, telling him that you aren't interested in going out with him. You don't need to go into elaborate explanations, but you need to be straight with him that you are not interested. Thank him for his efforts and attention, then you need to ghost him. Reading your other comments, he could be a borderline stalker, so you need to put some distance between you and him and block him on the media sites so he can't keep following you that way.0