So I was friends with benefits with my guy best friend on and off for 3 years, and every now and then we would take a break for about 1-2 months then start again. But the weird thing is, whenever we were on a break, it was just normal life. See him every day, nothing weird, normal friendship. But then when we would get back on it and be friends with benefits again, I would slowly get feelings for him, and try to make it into something romantic. We'd do sexual things and I'd always take whatever he said seriously and assumed he liked me etc. And as usual when we took a break and went back to being friends, all those feelings were lost and he was just a mate again. We're still in this cycle and we've just gotten back on again and I don't want to go through the feelings thing again What is this? Do I get feelings cause I like the attention? Do I actually have feelings for him? Help please xx
Women gain feelings when we are sexual with a man. When your a part those feelings for period time the feeling can start to dissolve. Sense your asking this I think your feelings have stuck this time.. really think it over and maybe talk it out with him.. ask him if he sees more with you or is just sex. If just sex on his part, then I would discontinue having sex with cause it will only cause you more confusion.
Because you need attention which is not wrong at all but don't you want a guy who respects you loves you cares you as his girl friend not a guy who uses you? Girl you deserve better than this. There are plenty of right guys good guys out there who will give you tons of love and attention.