Would a rich guy date a poor girl?

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Would a rich guy date a poor girl? I am a beautiful young woman with no money. I am down to earth, sweet, intelligent, and a talented artist. I live in an expensive area but am struggling in my own life and trying to figure things out. Twice this month I was checked out at gas stations by very attractive men in very expensive cars. The first time I was too shy when I noticed this tall, dark, and handsome man in a Porsche checking me out and was embarrassed by my beat up truck when I had to drive away. The second time was yesterday, I was pumping gas when I noticed this beautiful red hyper car next to me. At first, I just thought the car was cool but then this handsome young clean-cut guy stepped out who was just my type. When I noticed him checking me out I wouldn't look at him, even though I wanted to. I told myself I had nothing to offer, even though I have a good heart. When I drove away I was sad. After several minutes I realized I was much harder on myself then I ever would be on either of those men. It didn't matter to me that they had money but because I didn't I wasn't good enough. I know in reality that is bullshit but generally speaking would a rich guy date and/or marry a poor girl? All comments are welcome; be as honest as possible. Sugarcoating the truth is unnecessary.

wildman_77 · Accepted Answer

my experience is that "love" can happen anywhere... sure...

but most people really.. really care about what their peers think
if their friends think that its ghetto to get with you... there won't be love.. maybe a quick fling and some banging.. thats it

how many times have you heard.. WHAT WILL THEY THINK?
same shit...

some people are really cool as shit.. very.. very small percentage in my experience.. most people like comfort, familiarity and a safe place..

showing up with a girl that his friends won't approve of... you are upsetting the balance of his daily life. maybe you dont have a problem changing everything.. but most people have a thing they have created called their life... changing things and looking bad and loosing acceptance is something that is UNCOMMON

you always want to be aware of who exactly you are dealing with...

i have known many guys that are totally cool with a woman (physically) .. but eww she is not a college graduate... eww no i want someone as successful as me... true words

WhereAmI · Accepted Answer

I don't see why not unless you'd be out of place in his social circle. Good chance he's educated with a college degree and you should be as competent. If it does blossom into an engagement, don't be shocked if he asks that you sign a pre-nup to protect his estate.

Smmyskittles · Accepted Answer

Yes. Why?

RelentlessGoals · Answer

Depends on the guy. Being rich doesn't mean you have the exact same personality as other rich people. Is he a rich introvert? Then he might want the girl next door type. Is he a rich extrovert? Then he might want a girl that looks amazing, dresses fancy, and is pretty much "arm candy".

Zeusshock · Answer

Any wealth difference between people in a relationship is irrelevant if they love each other. However if you dated or married a rich guy some people could possibly get the wrong idea and assume that you are a gold digger.

pionneer · Answer

As a poor guy I can honestly say that I would be willing to date a rich women. Out of pity obviously.

genericname85 · Answer

guys are no gold diggers. we dont choose girls for money. but if we feel like she does, we won't like her.

dogbert444 · Answer

Money doesn't matter! It's what is in your heart that counts. You sound perfect for so many guys. Don't be embarassed or shy. Give them all a big smile! You'll win so many hearts!

breathofreshair · Answer

he would. but he needs to becareful as if you lived with him for 2 years even as a girlfriend, and break up, you can take half of his assets

men are marrying less due to this and how modern women offer far less to the family and her man

chrisbigman · Answer

It's very possible. Just because you don't have money, doesn't mean a guy (rich or poor) won't date a (poor or rich) girl. While having money can be helpful, it's not a dealbreaker - at least not to me.

Berethor · Answer

You are lucky that less men are care only about money, unlike many many women.

Anonymous · Answer

men have a different value system. beauty , intelligence tend to be far more important. Especially when he is already wealthy

datgirl · Answer

Honestly if I were rich I wouldn't date a poor guy cause he could easily just pretend to love me for the money.

AlwaysBelieving · Answer

Yes though you might have to show him you want him for reasons other than his money.  by the way, how'd you know if it was a hyper car?

Anonymous · Answer

You have a lot more to offer than you think lol sometimes the rich guys go after the poor girls because they're nicer and don't want him for his money. And cuz you're down to earth, be yourself tho

HonestWhiteGuy · Answer

Yes they would, I think its less likely that a rich girl would date a poor guy though

Anonymous · Answer

Guys don't usually care, you should have smiled and see if they would respond, I know I wouldn't care if I was rich

SUMAIREBRAHIM · Answer

I don't think so 50 shades is movie It's not reality

Anonymous · Answer

Nope I wouldn't if I was rich. She would have to be well off too

Anonymous · Answer

Would a rich guy date a poor girl? yeah why not i know i would. let me tell u what rich guys won`t date : gold diggers

The_Texting_Prince · Answer

I'll date you because I love unicorns 🦄

opurba · Answer

No unless he is really turned on.

ScottieO · Answer

Absolutely. No-brainer yes.

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