We dated for 8 months and out of no where she dumped me. When we broke up she said she lost the sparky// butterfly feeling. She also kept saying she's confused and unsure. Almost everyday since she has sent me text saying hi and making small talk. I try to ignore her cause I wanna move forward and not get stuck hanging on to false hope. So sometimes I don't respond to her text and when I don't she will send several more with either a ? or a bunch of dots. A couple nights ago she called me and said something along the lines of you seem to be doin good and didn't even seem heartbroken. And also that she is still confused. She even mentioned something about hanging out the next day, but it never happened. Today, she texted me "tomorrow is going to hard for me... seeing you". We both work together and its our first time seeing each other since the break up. What is going through this girls head? I mean I would love to be back with her, but I also don't wanna be that guy still hung up on his ex months later. Any advice would be great.. Thanks!
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I think she sounds like she's checking you still care etc.. if you want her back then I think by not desperately calling her is the way to do so. I think she's a little bit thrown off by your cool and collected approach (good on you). If you still have feelings for her then do not be friends. I think she may have just called to see if you were heartbroken maybe.. you can't tell anything on just phone conversations after a break up because there is the likelihood of 'frontin' ' on both sides. I suppose it could go either way but all this effort to call you means she does care... even if it's only a little. Keep playing it cool, and good luck !0