I never/barely get hit on by men. Only homeless men or guys I don't find attractive will call me beautiful out of nowhere. Once in a blue moon, I will catch a guy staring at me but a guy has never approached me or asked me out and I do not think it is because I am intimidating. But I cannot remember the last time a guy hit on me. I think my nose is big and I feel like it is getting in the way of my attractiveness. I feel really insecure about it. I look in the mirror and I am not satisfied. People told me when I was younger, that I had a big nose (even though I was chubby at the time.); I have my father's nose. Now, my nose is not as big as it was when I was younger but I still don't like it. Should I get a nose job?
Most Helpful Guy
the common misconception girls have as if its something wrong with them and most of the time its not, the real problem is girls refuse to approach guys themselves and keep expecting guys to do everything, and it doesn't only work that way, its too common for guys to get rejected way more than girls so most guys dont approach girls at all and expect the girl to choose him and approach/make moves.2
Most Helpful Girl
That's a very personal decision and completely up to you. If you feel it would raise your confidence and enhance your life, then maybe it would be worth it.
That being said, surgery is expensive and there are other things you could try to help you love yourself more. For example, getting lean and fit, eating really healthy, and having a cute clothing/shoe style can completely raise your attractiveness (and confidence!).
I don't think your experience of rarely getting hit on or asked out is that uncommon among the average girl, unless if you were into online dating or going out to bars/clubs. So I wouldn't expect to get approached more even after the surgery. Just something to think about! Do it to make yourself confident and happy, not to get approached more.0