I've generally gotten passed up by men before to Hispanic women or blondes with tan skin (even if they're overweight or all bones). So, now I'm wondering if my red hair and pale skin tone is now a turn off.
Personally - HELL YEAH! Kind of exotic, interesting, delicate, cute... I always wish to be a ginger - the fiery kind, with freckles :-) with pale skin it is a nice contrast... I think a woman like that seems delicate and passionate at the same time... It is just less boring than the rest of us :-) :D I don´t envy you the sun-related skin-burning issues though. But did you know, that gingers need more painkillers and aneasthetics than others? So something like giving birth and menstrual pain should go easier on you! :D They are also more immune to pain - or can endure a bit more than others... and also you should be able to produce your own vitamin D even without sunlight... ;-)
My most recent, was A REAL RED, with GREEN EYES, and mostly Irish!! I Adored her, and we had a great time for about 8 months!! She moved to London, for a job, and she was closer to family, in Ireland. She asked me to go with her, but I couldn't. I have a home, and family, here in the US. I LOVE NATURAL REDS, even the freckles!! Especially when they have an Irish accent, or maybe Scottish. . .
Meh never was a fan of dark tans that aren't naturally there (it's basically a scab under the skin that will just cause wrinkles 20 years early). Pale skin all the way. My biggest crush was from 27 years ago but I still use her as a measuring standard for all others I've been with since. She was a redhead (even if she was a mean bitchy one). I doubt it's just because of your hair color. Maybe post a pic? If you happen to be fat that could be why.