He takes me 100% for granted. I talked to him about it, he said that I'm his and therefore he doesn't have to make an effort anymore. Any ideas how to show him that he has to fight for me a little bit now and then?
"he said that I'm his and therefore he doesn't have to make an effort anymore" This is a toxic and unhealthy view towards relationships that results only in failure. Every relationship takes work and if someone isn't willing to put in effort then they aren't worth your effort. Why are you wasting your time on someone who clearly doesn't give a shit about you?
Just leave. He's not making an effort and taking you for granted? Dump him , he's not worth your time. Plenty of men out there would do everything and anything for you, why are you settling for this clown?
Don't bend over backwards for him anymore. However, he has voiced his opinions, therefore you should start thinking about how long-term this relationship would really be. However, what is it that you want him to do that would constitute as "effort"?
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