He takes me 100% for granted. I talked to him about it, he said that I'm his and therefore he doesn't have to make an effort anymore. Any ideas how to show him that he has to fight for me a little bit now and then?
Most Helpful Guy
If you aren't putting effort into him then he won't put effort into you. It's not just a one way thing.1
Most Helpful Girl
"he said that I'm his and therefore he doesn't have to make an effort anymore"
This is a toxic and unhealthy view towards relationships that results only in failure. Every relationship takes work and if someone isn't willing to put in effort then they aren't worth your effort. Why are you wasting your time on someone who clearly doesn't give a shit about you?0